What I already know is coming
What do I already know for certain about the years ahead — my own age, family milestones, costs or dates already fixed?
Why now
What has changed, or is likely to change in the near future, that makes this worth thinking about today?
What this really involves
Thinking about a change I am considering — what would I be gaining, what would I be giving up, and what would it commit me to going forward?
What I could start now
Is there one thing worth beginning, or one thing worth learning more about, while there is time to do it well?
My review
When will I come back to this and look at it again?
Before I finish — is there someone I trust, by name, not just "someone," who should hear about this before I act on it? Jack Lack's Listening Chair can help me think. It cannot know me, or stand in for the people who do.